“Speak to yourself like someone you are responsible for leading.” ~ adapted from Jordan Peterson Whose Voice Is It, Really? The voice within. You know it—the one that speaks up before you do. Sometimes it’s bold and affirming. Other times, it whispers doubts that echo louder than truth. And too…
Resilience
Gut Check: Wisdom, Fear, or Trauma?
“Your body may respond first—but your resilient self gets to ask for clarification. In Gallup’s research on what followers need most from leaders, four qualities rise to the top: 🔹 Trust 🔹 Compassion 🔹 Stability 🔹 Hope These aren’t just things others need from us—they’re things we must cultivate within…
What Writing Resilience Tree Taught Me
“How long did it take you to write your book?” This is the question I hear the most about Resilience Tree: A Model for Women Leaders of Color and Those Who Support Them. It’s an honest question. And if you’ve ever had a big dream of your own—writing a book,…
So You Want to Write a Book? Start Here.
People often ask me how I finally finished writing Resilience Tree: A Model for Women Leaders of Color and Those Who Support Them. Here’s what I tell them: Writing a book isn’t just about putting words on paper. It’s about creating an experience for your reader. And the best place…
Trust Begins With the Invitation: A Lesson About Branches
When I was first asked to lead a high-stakes project early in my career, I said yes immediately. The ask came from someone I respected — a senior leader with a big vision. But as the weeks went on, something felt… off. I realized later it wasn’t the work itself.…